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| 10:04 pm | Does masturbating make you last longer or shorter? he only lasts 10 mins at the most and then can't hold it any longer...is that a short amount of time? i think u have premature ejaculation first u need to calm down relax try the on an off practise i mean when u r about to do it get it out and wait 30 seconds and try agin..by thw way there r several drugs that work on parasympathatic nerves u can ask ur doctor about them if it didn't work out try it on the floor Na just kidding there are may ways to try and fix this antidepressants , circumcision , desensitising creams ,think of some thing else when your doing the wild thing, see a doctor,the more you practises the better you get at it and the longer you can stay 5 or 6 shags a day will help you out Both of you are obviously virgins. When you have sex, both of you, you will be so excited of being on the inside of a girl that you're gonna last for less than a minute. It depends on the mood . I hope he is in the moment enjoying as I will be. Most people are not timing their love making I hope-DUH! You should practice masterbating anyway. Otherwise, you need to change positions frequently throughout intercourse and that should help you last longer. Try thinking about other things rather than what turns you on and you might notice a difference. stop complaining and enjoy those 5 minutes every time. or squeeze his thingy right before hes about to blow 55 minutes of foreplay then 5 minutes of penetration then go braggin about how you guys went at it for a hour! GEEZ Masturbating beforehand does work for a lot of people. But - and that should be a BIG BUT - what most men don't know is that your masturbation habits may be causing premature ejaculation! If you're looking a long-term solution for lasting longer in bed, this is the book that I used to beat my PE problem: http://www.theendurancereport.com – highly recommended I finally got my confidence back – and it feels great! If you want to discover solon nigh premature ejaculation exercises please ready metropolis our journal or try searching for more info. Info here is presented by questions that I've asked my friends nearly this issue and it's presented to you. |
| 10:02 pm | my boyfriend can't last in bed..help? How do you last longer in bed? Milk yourself before you meet her. Don't touch her genitals until she is thoroughly aroused. Use every other part of her body. Her pupils should be dilated, her nipples erect, and her hips should be thrusting. Don't touch her clitoris until it is swollen and then only put pressure around it and not on it. When she is ready to orgasm very lightly and very slowly begining touching the clit. Penetrate after her first orgasm. Do an exercise called "kegels", this helps build the muscles that are responsible from the male orgasm. By training this muscle (PC muscle) you will strengthen it, therefore strengthening your orgasms as well. The PC muscle is located right between your scrotum and anus. This exercise is done by flexing the PC muscle. The next time you urinate, try stopping mid-stream without your hands, and that is your PC muscle. Contract and release this muscle as many times as you can throughout the day and before you know it you'll have the ability to last as long as you want. there is no time limit for women!!! are you kidding me???? we, i mean I am never totally satisified!! My poor husband can vouch for that!! after a women climaxes we can keep going and going and going, but it usually takes me at least 10-15 minutes before i can get off with actually penetration. so it really just depends on the woman. http://www.lelakionline.com/Magic-Tissu practice through masturbation each time push yourself to hold out the better you get at that the better you'll be in bed. i wouldnt ditch your husband over it, unless there are other things going on as well.... has it always been this way? has he been to a doctor? there are desensitizing cremes you could try that may help... You get condoms like "Durex Proforma" which has a numbing effect, I used it once, and was almost unable to reach an orgasm, so if you bf has that problem, it might just be the thing for you. If you poverty to larn many nigh premature gratify have indication our diary or try searching for many substance. Content here is presented by questions that I've asked my friends nearly this topic and it's presented to you. |
| 10:01 pm | How Can I Make or Help my Man last longer than 5 minutes in bed? How do you last longer in bed? Milk yourself before you meet her. Don't touch her genitals until she is thoroughly aroused. Use every other part of her body. Her pupils should be dilated, her nipples erect, and her hips should be thrusting. Don't touch her clitoris until it is swollen and then only put pressure around it and not on it. When she is ready to orgasm very lightly and very slowly begining touching the clit. Penetrate after her first orgasm. Do an exercise called "kegels", this helps build the muscles that are responsible from the male orgasm. By training this muscle (PC muscle) you will strengthen it, therefore strengthening your orgasms as well. The PC muscle is located right between your scrotum and anus. This exercise is done by flexing the PC muscle. The next time you urinate, try stopping mid-stream without your hands, and that is your PC muscle. Contract and release this muscle as many times as you can throughout the day and before you know it you'll have the ability to last as long as you want. there is no time limit for women!!! are you kidding me???? we, i mean I am never totally satisified!! My poor husband can vouch for that!! after a women climaxes we can keep going and going and going, but it usually takes me at least 10-15 minutes before i can get off with actually penetration. so it really just depends on the woman. http://www.lelakionline.com/Magic-Tissu practice through masturbation each time push yourself to hold out the better you get at that the better you'll be in bed. i wouldnt ditch your husband over it, unless there are other things going on as well.... has it always been this way? has he been to a doctor? there are desensitizing cremes you could try that may help... You get condoms like "Durex Proforma" which has a numbing effect, I used it once, and was almost unable to reach an orgasm, so if you bf has that problem, it might just be the thing for you. If you poverty to larn many nigh premature gratify have indication our diary or try searching for many substance. Content here is presented by questions that I've asked my friends nearly this topic and it's presented to you. |
| 10:01 pm | My boyfriend climaxs really fast when we have intercourse. We hardly do it but we want to figure out I need to last a little longer than a min. It depends on the mood . I hope he is in the moment enjoying as I will be. Most people are not timing their love making I hope-DUH! How often do yo have sex? Typically, if you don't have sex for a while, 15 mins is all your gonna get. If you have one partner, practice makes perfect. The most important thing - focus on making her feel good. If you know sex is only gonna last 15 mins, make sure you please her with foreplay. You need to learn some new techniques that involve part of your body other than you penis. You need to learn to "make love" instead of just "have sex". Women need LOTS of foreplay - touching and stroking and kissing and rubbing BEFORE you enter them. Use your hands and fingers, and see that she gets hers BEFORE you even think about getting yours. So get your mind off your dick and onto her! i have never heard of anythign to do that but you never know it could be out there somewhere. but if you do it alot more then he will start to last longer because he is getting used to it Be on top more often. Men last longer when they can relax and do not have there stomach muscels contracting. ease his tension by telling him it was great no matter what. The less pressure the better. Also less foreplay will help. I know that sucks, but until you can get him built up into the 5 minute range try to limit any type of oral on him. Let him please you orally, getting you very wet and excited before insertion. This way you are apt to cum more quickly during the actual act. If this still doesn't work, then come and find me and I will take very good care of you:) Maybe he masturbates frequently when you're not around. That would cause him to last longer.... Also, any kind of medication (or alcohol) could cause him to be unable to climax. My theory is that the guy shouldn't have to do all the work. Instead of just laying there, girls should try to help out a bit also. I wouldn't really set a time limit for myself, if I were you. That's just gonna put too much pressure on you & then you won't be able to enjoy it. If the girl still hasn't finished, but you're ready to, just stop for a bit & kiss her, then go back to doing whatever it was you were doing. Just pace yourself. I'm a girl, by the way. If you need to hear more virtually ways to last longer in bed for men gratify donjon mensuration our journal or try searching for many substance. Collection here is presented by questions that I've asked my friends nearly this subject and it's presented to you. |
| 10:00 pm | uphostered bed frame or metal bed frame? My boyfriend climaxs really fast when we have intercourse. We hardly do it but we want to figure out how he can last longer. any suggestions please.. and by the way we are both in our 20s and we were both virgins when we started going out. What you should do is masturbate before seeing her because the second time always takes longer, use protection, and do a lot of foreplay so you know she's satisfied. That way you both get what you want and you don't need to have sex for hours on end. Also, the friction after over an hour of sex isn't great and most women orgasm from clitoral stimulation, not penis in vagina thrusting. so maybe try some oral and more foreplay. More foreplay. More foreplay and be willing to 'finish' more than one way. It might seem counter-intuitive but more foreplay for him will help him last longer. Avoid over-focusing on orgasms or give him a complex about it, it will make things worse not better. Just because one or both you 'ding' doesn't mean you're done. He is older, the longer you wait in between the more like he should be to go for round two - if he's masturbating at all ask him to stop and save it for you. Also, certain positions are usually better for 'him' or better for 'her' - typically doggy is his and reverse-cow-girl is hers - avoid his favorites at first. Diet and exercise would be the next things to help though honestly 10min is already above average... If you are stressed, depressed, on SSRIs, or emotional for other reason it will generally affect you a lot more than him. Consider getting a bullet vibrator if you are 'hard'. And... talk to >him< not us. Tell him you need/want more romantic sex from him that it's becoming awfully routine and it's as 'wow' as it used to be. And don't avoid him... that will eventually end the marriage and won't help anything change for the better. Maybe he's just getting very excited about it. Well, go for the 5 minutes, and then give him some time to breathe, then go for round 2. Round 2 should last much longer. How often do you go at it? He'll last a lot longer the second and third time. He needs to learn how to pace himself and you need to have sex with him a lot more often and not criticism him so much about it. It's just as much your fault for not getting off quicker; if we want to we can be both done in about five minutes. He does need to learn to detect 'the point of no return' and stop for a minute or even switch back to oral for a while. If you expect him to get you off from penetration... unless you know from the past that you're good to go like that, a lot of women just do not orgasm from intercourse alone. foreplay brother, nothin better than ravishing a dames body.... get that sweet thang all worked up and ready for ya, so when you finish, you 2 might finish together... and look at it this way, the better it feels, the faster you finish. just gives the opportunity for more fun later. You can do some methods. First, try to think other things while you making love, it would help you stay last longer. And then, to support it from inside you can taking herbal supplement that may be able to help cure your premature ejaculation. My friend try to taking Climinax and he can stay last longer, and make his wife so glad. I hope this answer will help you. Good luck! the longer, the better! as far as fully pleasing her, try oral. if you know how to stimulate her g-spot, you are golden!! ALWAYS use protection too!!! If you poorness to learn statesman nearly delayed ejaculation delight rest mensuration our blog or try intelligent for solon substance. Message here is presented by questions that I've asked my friends near this substance and it's presented to you. |
| 9:59 pm | i can't last long in bed no more? Hey everyone, I've been having trouble lasting long in bed. I can only go about 5-10mintues and when I do I feel bad because I want my girlfriend to enjoy it too. I want to know how I can last longer so I can satisfy her and stop being so insecure about it. If any one has advice I'd love to hear it:) thanks! p.s. I do masturbate just in case that affects it in some way my boyf is the same, ive found if you spend ages on foreplay you wont last long, do a little but then go into it, or have foreplay by yourself a few hours before u begin. long because when its short its not as fun. but too long does get tiring. if she thinks you're lasting too long try some more foreplay Go to Bookstore and look into Lovemaking techniques. Go to Lover's Lane and get some sex toys, adult movies (not hard-core porns), even games for adults. Be creative, use food and have fun woth it like making a human Sundea and then lick it off her body give her a massage first. If she can legally drink, a glass of wine will relax her and some nice music. Make her feel special and don't put so much pressure on yourself. Best of all, ask her what she likes and what turns her on. Women love oral sex, start with that first and then work your way into more intimate pleasures. Alot of women do not have to get off everytime, we are not programmed that way. Who knows maybe she had a hard day at work and her focus might not be 100 percent there or as we say "in the mood" just some ides, hope this helps There are over the counter desensatizing creams/gels and even better condoms with these on them; to help keep your sensation from making you ejaculate too quickly....using a condom everytime helps alot and especially if you aren't ready for children! Try Trojan Extended Pleasure or Durex Performax. With regards to his size issue, maybe try a guilt trip on him. Ask him why he doesn't respect your opinion when you tell him he's big enough. Why is he trying to impress someone else? As he tries to defend himself against such accusations he'll realize the errors of his previous thinking. Just like how we get all these eating disorders from seeing all the models and stuff on tv, your boyfriend as a similar disorder from seeing the men in porn movies. He's comparing himself to those freaks of nature thinking they're normal. He may not be mature enough to be watching porn so much. Just because he's old enough to legal buy it, that doesn't mean he's mature enough to handle watching it. With regards to him being a premee, he can try to start doing some Kegel exercises. Other exercises he can do is practice materbaiting up to just about the point where he ejectulates, but stops just prior to it. Then as he is able to achieve that, he can start trying to extend how long it is from when he gets an erection till when he has to stop. excersises when you are peeing stop the pee this is the muscle you will be excersiseing just flex it for as long as you can when you are hard a over the corse of a few days you will notice a difference in bed Hi Joe, 30 minutes is long already. How long do you want? Most people can't even last more than a few minutes and these people turn to penis pills to help them last longer like yourself. Want to see what kind of pills they used just visit link in the source. Take care! If you need to see writer almost what can i do to last longer in bed satisfy cell mensuration our diary or try intelligent for more substance. Accumulation here is presented by questions that I've asked my friends nigh this content and it's presented to you. |
| 9:59 pm | Can you desensitize your penis? I dont know what Im doing. I have been sexually active wit my girlfriend for 3 years now and I still cant last longer than 2 minutes unless I am high or drunk. She loves foreplay and i think its why i dont last as long because I get off from watchin her play w herself but I cant resist cumming when we get to sex. I try to think about other things but the wetness gets me everytime. She says she loves it and usually finishes herself she isnt a huge fan of sex cause it still hurts a little but when she plays w herself i know she would love sex if i can last longer. Please help me what do you do to please ur woman? Easiest route is for him to go 2x each session. Or maybe when you think he is getting close to finishing say, "I think I hear my dad." I have a similar problem after being diagnosed with Diabetes - damage to extremities is a normal side effect and this results in my having reduced sensation down below. The male orgasm/ejaculation involves the contraction of many muscles in and around the pelvic region.Mind plays an important role during ejaculation.Natural treatments are best to delay ejaculation Ejaculation master is the web's most popular ejaculation control program http://www.EjaculationSecret.com Maybe you guys could find a way to satisfy you first? Maybe something of the oral variety? Then the timing won't be such a problem. If you just want him to last longer, maybe try again after his first climax. The second orgasm is always farther down the road than the first. I know this is a problem for you guys, but if his climaxes are that much faster during intercourse, that's actually a compliment to you. When you are doing it, warn him that if he finishes before you do, you will force him to go down on you to fish you off, even though you have been freshly filled. This should give him some incentive to last a little longer, unless he does not mind tasting himself. If you've already talked about it, then there's not a huge problem. If you get nervous, it may not even work at all I'm assuming you're a virgin and you've waited -- good for you. But don't put all this pressure on yourself to have a wonderful, 5-hour sex marathon where she orgasms 15 times just from you being in missionary position. That's not how sex works, and that's not how our bodies work. Try to masturbate beforehand if you can to last longer. Also, while masturbating, notice when you're about to climax. Stop stimulation, and flex your PC muscle until the sensation goes down. You can practice this and then use it on your wife... although it may be literally 5 strokes before you feel climax is inevitable on your first time. If you climax soon, just laugh it off. Then offer to please her through manual or oral stimulation. What's great about wedding night sex is that you're having sex with the one you love, the one you'll be with forever, through thick and thin. THAT'S what makes it special, not that it has to be like a porn-marathon. You gotta calm down some and not get so excited. breath, try to think of anything else but what you're doing. I hear they have condoms that can somewhat numb your penis (not in a "I can't feel it way") to make men last longer.. Look into that. If you deprivation to take much virtually how to last longer in bed for men naturally delight hold mensuration our diary or try searching for more substance. Accumulation here is presented by questions that I've asked my friends some this content and it's presented to you. |
| 9:58 pm | Sex is for procreating and to screw for an hour requires drugs or alcohol, you agree? When me and my boyfriend have sex, he always goes on top because I can't feel any pleasure when I'm on top and he usually loses his erection faster. He only lasts about 10 minutes in bed sometimes less, because he gets worn out easily and his shoulders and knee caps start to ache because he's always on all fours when he's on top, he also always stops a few times during sex because he is so worn out and in pain. How can I make him last longer? Is there any comfortable positions or products that will make him last longer in bed? Thanks Your clearly not up to it yet emotionally. A bad experience could mentally scar you for a long time. You need to find yourself a practice girl. So if the worst case scenario happens and it's a disaster, you wont be subjected to any teasing. Ideally she should be inexperienced and a bit of a loner. Looks in this situation aren't an issue. Do you know anybody who fits the bill? Start off "slow" with her, then after awhile move faster and faster. It will cause you last a lot longer. Take a slight break if you need to. Better to pause than finish. I fooled around for a good four hours and actually wasn't able to finish so be careful not to over do it. Good luck How to get a hard, firm erection in only 60 seconds? Sick and tired of the humiliation of premature ejaculation? How you can last 15 minutes longer in bed TONIGHT & permanently end the pain & embarrassment of premature ejaculation. No pills, no creams, no gimmicks… Just a scientifically PROVEN method that works. http://6f9161jlj65w6k76nlqg109vam.hop.c dude uncircumsized dick lasts more, because the skin is covering the head so its less sensible during sex ohh and if u dont masterbate often do so, i used to last like 5 mins, now i last about a hour and half but i dont gotta be switching postions, maybe like 2 or 3 times u know but do so O my dear, sex is a lifetime experience. More you do it - better you become at it. At the same time it can get more boring. This will result in him lasting longer as well. No. Don;t take it wrong. It's like with food. You can eat the best strawberries in your entire life. Once you have them all the time; what do you guess will happen? He will last more than 5-10 minutes one day. Nothing wrong. He's just a healthy male! Relax. Read this http://www.teen-questions.com/prema FOREPLAY.... women need a warm up, start off slow and work up to the finish, lots of teasing in between. If you take the time to give her a work up, it will be a lot less work to finish it. promise. hes probably thinking about cumming too much. he needs to concentrate on something else but still enjoy it. i heard if he flexes it, it makes him cum faster. just keep telling him dont stop it feels so good i wanna cum or something lol If you deprivation to take much virtually last longer in bed men delight hold mensuration our diary or try searching for more substance. Accumulation here is presented by questions that I've asked my friends some this content and it's presented to you. |
| 9:57 pm | Which signs, houses or aspects indicate that someone will be able to last real damn long in bed? like is there any good positions that a guy will last longer or idk anything would help Well, for starters, you could try wearing a Santa hat and a Backstreet Boys t-shirt during those intimate times. Works for me. maybe a stimulant, but that might not make you last longer, just make it more... intense. you know, harder. opiates are probably a bad idea, seeing as i know former dopefiends who've gone months on end without so much as jacking off. weed... i don't know. maybe with a full stomach, but then you might just be all flaccid... lol. Twenty minutes will suffice. That is if u know what u are doing. If you cant get it done in twenty minutes....you wont get it done in 60. I promise. Try jerking off almost to climax and then stop. give it a few seconds then go again. this will make you last longer. Its a stamina thing. Just like runnung a marathon, no one can do it without training. cream is good but you should no when you reach to the final point! before you reach to the point that you will be ejaculate then stop and busy yourselves with touching boo.bs and back area and kiss each other after minutes then go for intercourse again and rapid it more times, then you can have very strong orgasm. Don't listen to cyril. More than one condom is more likely to cause friction and rip. Try taking it easy. Stop every time he's about to finish, then start again. Sounds like he needs to spend more time pleasing you instead of you pleasing him to make sure you get yours well in advance. His D*** isnt the only thing that can pleasure you, use your immagination and invest in some toys. If he quits after he is done he sounds like a lazy selfish lover. Um.. maybe you are just arousing her so much she can't last any longer. Or she's faking it and thinks that you are like most men and ejaculate prematurely. What ever it is, I'm sure you can talk to Oprah or Doctor Phil. If you requirement to discover many virtually lasting longer in bed exercises gratify cell representation our blog or try intelligent for many substance. Aggregation here is presented by questions that I've asked my friends some this subject and it's presented to you. |
| 9:57 pm | I am a 23 yrs male, gonna have sex 4 1st time. how do i last myself longer? i used to last long in bed then one day it just stopped...one day me and my gf did it for like an hour straigt and i didnt even finish and that was the first time i nevver finished...and now ever since then i literally go for like 1 min ? yeah im right....i think somethins messed up...cuz when we were goin for about an hour i didnt finish and it pissed me off...and now i last like 1 min..i ussed to last like 25 at max Give her lots of oral to stertch it out fo rher. Drink lots of water so your have lot osf semen and can come multiple times. ANd mabye have sex less so you can build up semen and come multiple times. my ex and i tried a cream. basicly all of these methods work by numbing you. on the bright side, i could last for a long time. on the downside, when i finally did climax i couldnt feel it. to me i was better working with what i had, and enjoying it instead. just make sure your partner is satisfied with oral or toys. Depends on what your squeezing I guess-- hopefully you are not talking about squeezing your penis hard, that would bruise it and maybe cause clots. then just do it...kiss her lips and work your way down...if she laughs but you don't, she'll see that you're seriously gonna go do it...so, then go from there I can go for a few hours with drink breaks.. with all the frills ofcourse, so long as its sensual and loving. (thinking of her) If its wicked dirty fun sex (thinking of me).. meh, 15mins tops. LOL Dunno about jerkin the gerkin before sex though.. never done that. you have something backwards the more excited a guy gets, the less time he lasts. you, however, sound awsome. the old trick is to think of baseball, just distract yourself from whats going on. or ware 2 condome, be warned this increases the chanses of breakage but will remove enough feeling that he will last loger. it's a sad truth, but the better you are in bed the less time you will spend there The problem is that you see masturbation as a quick method of satisfying your sexual needs, but you can help yourself last longer. You can teach yourself to control your ejaculations by using the stop - go method. Masturbate as usual, but just before you ejaculate, stop for a minute or so, then start again. Keep stopping, and resting, as many times as you can. You will find that with practise, you will be able to control yourself better, and this will help when you get to have sex. The other benefit is that when you use this method, you'll find that when you do go on to ejaculate, your orgasm will be much more intense, because of the longer build up. If you requirement to discover much nigh how can men last longer in bed delight book datum our diary or try searching for statesman message. Content here is presented by questions that I've asked my friends roughly this content and it's presented to you. |
| 9:56 pm | I have a colony of fruit flies for my toad how can I make them last longer than a month? I've struggled with premature ejaculation for years and it's ruining my sex life. Besides embarrassing visits to the specialist, is there any hope for me? My feeling it is the newness of the experience that kept you from lasting that long and as you do it more it should subside. Hello I think the average time of most men in these world is about 15 to 20 minutes when they have intercourse. Sure it depends on every men, some can longer other will come quickier. There are always exceptions and sometimes the second time, third time you can last longer to come to the orgasm. It has men who come very quickly and have premature ejaculation and other who can't do it a second time. It depends on our mind too, sometimes we can do it a long time other times whey are too horny and come very fast. It depends of a lot of factors, sometimes we're stressed or under perfomance stress, then we come very fast. Other times we can last a lot of time. It depends on the women too, which positions you do and how long the foreplay goes. The other factors are that the practice is a very important thing and you more sex you have the more you know you're body and when you come. Sometimes you can stop before you ejaculate, than continue and so average the time. Other times you will ejaculate and not wait. It depends always on how we are and the situation. Some peoples look at pornstars, and think that they can do it a long time. But the take some ED drugs and they're filmed and cutted so that last long. It's all illusion like when they make films, they're not idols or supermans. I would say that it doesn't exist a real statistic, because every men look his sexlife different. Some men say they can do it for an hour and 5 times, so it's difficult to make a statistic.... just have the experience last longer. instead of having him have his penis inside of you (to put it bluntly) just do different sexual activities that will prolong his ejaculation. such as him pleasing you a little bit longer. You don't want to take a pill for this. Try edging. When you masturbate, bring yourself up almost to climax. And then let yourself relax. Do this repeatedly until you can orgasm at will. A little practice can really help. Good luck! Lot's of good suggestions by other people here. However, if she wants to make sure he stays up for as long as she could ever want the two of them might consider getting a penile implant. I have one of those and i can stay up for 4 straight hours but then have to rest for a half hour or so. Then i get it up for another 4 hours It's great and works everytime. As long as there is plenty of lubrication i could lay back and let a dozen women ride it in shifts. Was the best investment i've made for personal pleasure in my lifetime. just keep practicing and his little anteater will get used to it. before you know it he'll be drooling all over you and wanting to do it all the time. his tallywacker just ain't used to the tang yet. Check out this website mate http://www.curing-premature-ejacula If you essential to read solon virtually last longer in bed exercises please sustenance reading our journal or try searching for author message. Entropy here is presented by questions that I've asked my friends nearly this matter and it's presented to you. |
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